Thank you so much for your question and your honesty.
I want to start by saying, if you don’t feel desirable within yourself, you won’t feel this way around men.
At the end of the day, you’re only ever in control of who you choose to be. You can put energy into making sure the people you date don’t lose interest or you can put energy into feeling amazing within yourself. One will be controlling, fearful and attached and the other will be empowering, exciting and magnetic.
Here are my top tips for building self-trust so you feel more desirable:
Firstly, identify and release the limiting beliefs that keep popping up and choose new, more empowering beliefs. An example of this could be; instead of “people always lose interest in me”, you can shift to “I know I’m desirable and worthy of love just by being my true self”
Secondly, date yourself! This could be dancing, running a bath, dressing up, making a nourishing meal or going for a nice long walk.
Finally, spend time discovering who you want to be, what you really desire and what you need in order to make it happen.
By Lauren Johnston, Self-Love & Relationship Coach
If you’re struggling with your love life, feel free to contact Lauren via Instagram @laurenjohnston___.