Is it good to love someone who loves someone else more deeply
Is it good to love someone who loves someone else more deeply
Q:
I'm just depressed I feel I'm not perfect for anyone my past relationships were fall apart
my ex bf wants me to go back to him but I fall in love with a guy who is in love with someone for past 3 years . I'm just stuck whom I should choose
A:

Thanks for sharing! 


You certainly shouldn't choose someone who is in love with someone else and you definitely shouldn't choose your ex just because you can't get the other guy.


It's not that simple. 


First you need to decide what qualities you truly need from a partner. This will help you pick men based on their character rather than love. 


Love is fleeting.

1. Decide 3-5 qualities that you require from a partner (emotionally mature? Financially independent? Good leadership skills? Etc. you decide what's important to you) 


2. List out qualities in yourself that are good for a relationship.


3. List out some areas you still need to work on within yourself and start working on them!


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